{"id":1605,"date":"2018-10-08T13:30:29","date_gmt":"2018-10-08T20:30:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.no-destination.org\/?p=1605"},"modified":"2018-10-08T13:30:29","modified_gmt":"2018-10-08T20:30:29","slug":"adventuring-with-anxiety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.no-destination.org\/index.php\/2018\/10\/08\/adventuring-with-anxiety\/","title":{"rendered":"Adventuring with Anxiety"},"content":{"rendered":"

This is a day-in-the-life snippet of how anxiety can affect me. 
\nI want you to know you can adventure alone, as a woman, as a person with anxiety and panic attacks, and still have it be a good experience. <\/p>\n

September 29, 2018<\/p>\n

I should have moved my camper to another spot here when I had the chance. Now it\u2019s too late \u2013 all the spots are full and it\u2019s dark outside.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s been five hours and I haven\u2019t been able to stop worrying about my truck rolling off the cliff where my camp spot is set up. I put big rocks under each tire, the e-brake is on, the truck is in \u201cpark\u201d, and so far, it\u2019s never rolled while parked.<\/p>\n

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Why didn\u2019t I just move if it\u2019s so bothersome? If I\u2019m not going to sleep well because my mind won\u2019t let go of this one awful thought?<\/p>\n

Sometimes I do move. Sometimes I don\u2019t have the energy to fight it. The trick, after dealing with panic attacks and severe anxiety for over 30 years is to recognize when it\u2019s totally irrational vs. somewhat irrational with some credibility vs. credible.<\/p>\n

Sangre de Cristo mountains, New Mexico<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Could I roll off this cliff? Sure. How likely realistically is it? Not very. Okay, probably not at all. Well, it could <\/em>happen, but it\u2019d take a lot for that to happen and the odds aren\u2019t with that.<\/p>\n

Rio Grande del Norte National Monument, New Mexico<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Of course, in my mind, the truck\u2019s momentum (from a parked stop?) somehow overwhelms the park and brake and big rocks and rolls me and the dogs backwards over the cliff in the darkest hour of the night. Because, see, it takes a number of hours for the pressure of the slight decline I\u2019m parked on to work on the weight of the truck.<\/p>\n

Great. Maybe I will  just move to the \u201cday use\u201d area for the night.<\/p>\n

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I had my first-that-I-can-place panic attack when I was 17. Then no problems with that for a year or so, then I started having them regularly right before I started college. For about a year or year and a half, every evening at twilight I\u2019d get an anxiety around twilight when the day turns into night and the shadows are long and nothing has sharp edges or focus as the sun sinks lower on the horizon. Driving helps. I think because I had to focus on something other than the anxious feelings.<\/p>\n

The anxiety waned for another year or so, then smacked me in the middle of my acting studies. Panic attacks screwed up college, then took my love away from me. I stopped taking classes and auditioning.<\/p>\n

In my early 20s the panic attacks were so frequent and invasive I couldn\u2019t hold a job. I finally got on some medication and re-learned how to function without panic attacks. The meds had an uncomfortable (side)effect of making me feel like there was a plexiglass wall between me and my feelings; I could see them, but not really touch them. I only stayed on that medication for about a year, but it did what it was supposed to do.<\/p>\n

Since then, I\u2019ve had panic attacks and horrible anxiety but not so frequently that it disrupts my life (too much). I\u2019ve learned various coping methods and tools \u2013 using breathing exercises and meditations learned during my acting training, having a few supportive friends I can bounce \u201cit\u2019s okay, right?\u201d off of, and a lot of self-talk.<\/p>\n

But sometimes, like now, when I\u2019m not feeling well physically and didn\u2019t sleep well the night before, or am worn out, it\u2019s more difficult.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll take a Benadryl tonight. The antihistamine not only helps with my allergies, but it\u2019s sleepy-making and this helps take the edge off the anxiety. I still won\u2019t sleep well tonight though. That ever-present anxious watch-dog nips at my heels even in the most beautiful of locations, dulling the beauty because so much of my attention is focused on not getting overwhelmed by the anxiety.<\/p>\n

Having the dogs with me helps.<\/p>\n

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Why am I telling all you about this aspect of me? Because so many people suffer from crippling anxiety and panic attacks and I want y’all to know that you can still adventure and travel. It just is often more difficult and sometimes terrifying than other folks have to deal with, but it’s worth the effort!  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This is a day-in-the-life snippet of how anxiety can affect me.  I want you to know you can adventure alone, as a woman, as a person with anxiety and panic attacks, and still have it be a good experience.  September 29, 2018 I should have moved my camper to another spot here when I had the chance. Now it\u2019s too late \u2013 all the spots are full and it\u2019s dark outside. It\u2019s been five hours and I haven\u2019t been able…<\/p>\n

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